In my last couple of posts, I’ve shared that I am thinking more about how to raise children that are good human beings who appreciate all that they have. And in turn, I’ve admitted that I hope that my children not only grow up to appreciate their family, the presence of a roof over their heads, two parents, food, and quality time together, but that they give back to their fellow man because they are fortunate little people. I’m not sure who reads my blog but it seems like my posts are getting read and as a result, I’ve been receiving lots of articles from writers who want to share related messages. It’s also Thanksgiving, and most of us are counting our blessings. I also have a hunch that some of us (me) are also feeling a bit guilty about complaining when life doesn’t live up to our expectations.
Anyhoo . . .
Here is an article about how to get your family more active as volunteers. There are links to Kiddie Academy, which I don’t know much about, but go ahead and check them out.
“Hoping to add a community giving project to your family’s activities? If so, this is the perfect time, as Family Volunteer Day takes place on November 23, the Saturday before Thanksgiving. The Points of Light Foundation created national Family Volunteer day 22 years ago to showcase the benefits of family volunteering and provide opportunities for families to help communities create supportive environments for their children and each other.
“Volunteering is a great way for families to spend time together. It can benefit a child’s psychological, social and intellectual development and instill a lifetime of generosity,” says Richard Peterson, vice president of education for Kiddie Academy® Child Care Learning Centers. “Children learn from and even mimic their parents’ actions; therefore, a family volunteering project can help to reinforce positive life lessons.”
Kiddie Academy (www.KiddieAcademy.com) offers the following tips for nurturing your child’s generous spirit during the holidays and throughout the year:
1. Remind your children that generosity isn’t only about donating money – volunteering your time and talents are a great way to share. Make hats for local hospitals, visit nursing home residents, or offer to host a reading event at a local library.
2. Demonstrate that volunteering can be an year round activity. Along with your child, plan an ongoing volunteering project that benefits a cause that’s close to your hearts. For example, a monthly visit to an animal rescue center to assist the staff with walking and feeding the pets.
3. Involve your child in donating outgrown clothes, toys and books to a local charity. Set up a designated “donate” box in your home, and encourage your child to participate in adding items to the box, and delivering them to the chosen charity each month.
4. Read books together that highlight the importance of kindness. The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein, Rainbow Fish by Marcus Pfister and The Lion and the Mouse by Aesop all feature acts of generosity. Consider adding them to your home library.
5. To find a family volunteer opportunity in your community, visit the All for Good website ( http://www.allforgood.org/)
For more tips on finding “teachable moments” to help children learn about the rewards of generosity for themselves and for others, parents can visit the Kiddie Academy Family blog at: http://www.kafamilyessentials.